WOW! That’s how I would describe the month that’s just been – wow, busy, fun, cool. I realized that I had forgotten to end my last update with a quote. With discussion around queer-based prejudice and discrimination, the quote that is most apt comes from Margaret Cho (an amazing comedian if you ever have the chance to see her). She said, “Any kind of love is fine, it’s your hate you have to watch” – so true, so simple. Remember it.
So what has made this month so full on? Well to start off with, we had our AGM for 2005. Here we said goodbye to Wikitoria Jacobs and Kirsten Cliff, and welcomed onto the board Rie Kim and Serafin Dillon. Rainbow Youth is run by a volunteer board of eight young people (under 28) who are elected each year from and by our members. It insures that our organisation is youth focused and is meeting the needs of what young people want. The AGM also becomes a social event with a BBQ held afterwards and a chance for others to meet new people. The new board for 2005 to 2006 is; Lillian Williamson (Chairperson), Rie Kim (Secretary), Nick Keegan (Treasurer), Maria Hogan, Morgan Johns, Serafin Dillon, John Christie, and Cameron Michael. The board selects the three adult advisors. Linda Farr and Margaret Talbot are back with us this year and we sadly say goodbye to Julie Radford-Poupard. A new adult advisor will be welcomed to the board sometime this month.
We are also in the process of having the Rainbow Youth Centre renovated. As you can see from the pictures we’ve been busy stripping the walls and preparing it for painting. This was quite a massive task; luckily Lesley and I had the help of Linda, Maria, Cam and Paul (one of my flat mates). We ran into complications when behind some of the corkboard that was taken down was VERY LITTLE wall! My wonderful Auntie Sue jumped in and put one up for us – much to the relief of all of us who just couldn’t believe what we saw when the wall was exposed. Finished pictures of the painting and carpet will be up next month!
This month has included the Outtakes Film Festival. This is the yearly New Zealand gay and lesbian film festival held in Auckland, Wellington and Christchurch. Perhaps the learning topic for this month should be the lack of visibility and queer role models for young people. While the Outtakes Film Festival is an amazing festival for many reasons it is incredibly important for the reason of increasing that visibility.
As a young person myself, I know the importance of seeing oneself reflected in media. A young queer person is denied seeing a part of their identity in NZ media. This has improved hugely over the last couple of years (with shows such as ‘Queer Eye’ and ‘Degrassi’), however you’ll find that most gay characters generally conform to known stereotypes – and while there is little wrong with individual stereotypes, the problem comes when that is all there is. Why is it that there are loads of images of heterosexual couples (of various ages) in all manner of physical contact and yet when it comes to a simple teenage kiss on a music video between two girls or guys this apparently has to be censored? The Outtakes Film Festival is a rare opportunity for queer youth to see a part of themselves reflected in media (in the appropriate rated films that is) that is often denied them.
For a simplistic example one of the films I saw was D.E.B.S. It was a comedy spoof of Charlie’s Angels and basically a ‘pg’ type rated kids movie. D.E.B.S was such a fun, silly movie and lots of laughs came from the audience. It just so happened that both the main good and evil characters were gay. It was just so cool to be in a mainstream theatre (Village on Queen) with a group of gay friends watching a gay themed movie on the big screen. It needn’t be more complicated than that.
Just to end on, we would love to thank a very generous man from the South Island who donated money so that we could purchase a TV and DVD player for the Rainbow Youth Centre!
“Touch passion when it comes your way, Stephen. It’s rare enough as it is. Don’t walk away when it calls you by name” – Marcus, Babylon 5