There is something unnerving about setting out in the heavy rain and the calamity of weekend traffic with the craziness of the working week still a buzz in my head. But one Friday evening each winter this is a special journey to Te Puea Marae, and the annual Youthline hui. As is tradition I get lost. The drive to Mangere takes twice as long as it should. My unfortunate passengers and I are somewhere in South Auckland, turning maps, struggling with foggy car windows and the tension of being late building in my shoulders. But I arrive safely and as soon as I step into the Marae a sense of giggly excitement takes hold. I giggle because I am happy to be back, I feel safe, at home and amongst friends.
On Friday night Cathy, Josie, the Marae team and I gather, we have been planning the hui since April. The Marae team are volunteer leaders who carry the communities’ history, taonga and waiata. They hold the responsibility for making this experience as safe, warm and magical for those starting their Youthline journey, as it was once for them. So Friday night is a time to relax, chat, eat pizza and rest.
Saturday morning is an early start and all action. We feel excitement and a twitter of anxiety as the manuhiri start to gather at the gates at 8am. The powhiri is a magical experience, the voices of the Kai Karanga and Kai Whakatu are like ropes thrown out to each other, entwining and pulling us together. The spiritual power of this is palpable, and I feel immense honour being able to welcome new volunteers their whanau and mokopuna, friends, partners and siblings to share in this unique Youthline experience. After the powhiri is complete we break tapu with some good kai and gather again to hear the wisdom of Kaumatua Rawiri and CEO Stephen Bell.
Every year the energy at the Marae Hui is different. This year the new volunteers brought enthusiasm and a readiness to embrace all the challenges that this event has to offer. When the space opened volunteers spoke eagerly, sharing from the heart. Stories of journeys; within Youthline, peoples’ lives, and ancestral journeys were a central theme.
I enjoyed hearing about the difference Youthline has had on volunteers’ lives. Many came here with the intention of helping others, but in opening themselves up to giving, they received so much more than they ever anticipated.
Over 100 volunteers and staff gathered in Mangere, building on a tradition that has connected us to Te Puea Marae since 2002. It was humbling to see Youthline Staff roll up their sleeves, peeling potatoes and kneading dough to keep the bellies and the hearts of the volunteers nurtured. Doreen’s super duper kitchen creations wowed the crowd with an incredible array of nutritious food.
By late afternoon on Saturday there was a strong sense of connection: whakawhanaungatanga groups busied themselves with rehearsals for the evening show, the Pepeha workshop was underway and 40 or more members got silly with some Laughter Yoga. The evening show, hosted thunderbirds Virgil & Gordon, featured the Kids Snoring Show, some tight lycra aerobics moves and a surprise striptease!
Losing my way on my journey to Te Puea Marae is par for the course, but what I find is always something more significant. In past years I have found my voice, my sense of purpose, my leadership ability. This year I found the time to reflect on my incredible family, whose support of me enables me to give so much to others.


